Originally Posted by
madgirl 
He hasn't been physically violent. No one would believe me - I'm telling you - outsiders think he hung the moon and that he dotes on me. My sister gets it, though.
We have a beautiful house, and a full finished basement. My parents have no money and I am anticipating needing to look after them when they can't live alone anymore.
If I called a domestic abuse hotline, he could throw me out.
We are here with you. For you.
You're reaching out. This is a good thing.
This can be a dangerous time during an abusive relationship.
The phone call to a help center can help keep you safe. It is completely confidential.
Some centers have a weekly meeting, often at a safe house with a secret location. Being able to visit these places has surrounded me with layers of safety I needed, when I didn't know I needed this.