Originally Posted by
recycle 
Cerbus of course you are a success, you aren't drinking and you are not obsessing about drinking.
But my experience, and some really smart people, have shown me that all things change. If I don't believe that, all I have to do is dare something to remain the same.
I agree!
And I do think striking a balance between being confident and obsessing is important! Too much either way seems to me a bad idea.