TU, these threads are great but you need to know the subject matter(read the book) to discuss it properly. I apologize for being thick headed & dragging my feet. It has taken me awhile to read b/c I only had 20 uninterrupted mins/night to devote to it.
Now that I am done, all I can say is WOW! It IS SO worth the time to read it. It made more sense than anything else I've read on addiction.
So you posted a question awhile back, that I was not adequately able to answer at that time.
Can you forget your Big Plan?
No. It would be like forgetting marriage vows.
It is an infinite decision not to be entered into lightly.