Its time I did that- pretty much read the site- so Ill take your word for it. Thanks again for introducing me to this. Understanding that recovery is an event and not a process basically cured me- the peace Ive felt on this has been incredible, especially compared to the uneasy truce I was effecting with 12 steps- Im basically going to meetings to encourage people- I don't really belong there. most importantly,Im not taking any time from my family or workouts or practice to do so (Ill skip work though!!). I should at least get the book so I can lend it out to some of my friends who are still confused. Its hard not to share this with my friends- who Im sure just wish I would shut up already.