Originally Posted by
Obladi 
I know intuitively that waiting for the time when I am on my own two firmly sober feet is the right time to decide about the Big Plan.
Can you define "firmly sober"? What does that mean?
Originally Posted by
Obladi I hesitate to mess with "what's working." That part is likely AV.
The definition of the Addictive Voice is very precise: "Any thinking, imagery, or feeling that supports, or even suggests, the possible future use of alcohol and other drugs, ever."
Putting off quitting for good, or wanting to put off quitting for good, supports, and certainly suggests, the possible future use of alcohol and other drugs. THAT is AV.