That is just the greatest thing to hear, Meredith! I am so very happy for you and your husband. I certainly had some mixed emotions for the first few days about this new direction that my life was taking, but as my head cleared and my wd symptoms cleared, that euphoria and relief set in. I felt so much better in myself and therefore in my marriage, I felt that I was able to be real and present for the first time in a decade.
The most helpful things I heard during this time were encouragement - 'Of course you can do this, I know that about you already, this is the sort of thing you can do'. He will be happy to hear your quiet presence there with him.
I also wish you the best with your extended family too, Meredith. I admire your strength and I feel that youse guys will be OK.