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Old 04-24-2018, 11:31 AM
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I'm sorry, Lovelost, I didn't mean to be so short. My apologies.

The finger snapping triggered me terribly.

You were looking for perspective on your situation. My advice remains the same, but I know it may be difficult for you. I don't think someone that makes you cry this early in a relationship is healthy. I also find his behavior very controlling and emotionally abusive.

The fact that you're questioning yourself or thinking there's something wrong with you, tells me he's already lowering your self-esteem. Any man that truly loves you wouldn't treat you this way. You deserve so much more... I can promise you that.

Please keep posting.
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