Originally Posted by
Seren 
I think this is, perhaps, an idea worth considering. There were no children involved when my ex-husband divorced me, but having him leave was preferable--even for me.
And yes, please, do consult an attorney ASAP, especially since the plan is to sell that house in May. That isn't very far in the future!
I agree with Seren on consulting an attorney. One never knows what is coming round the next corner and your husband has already behaved in a way that demonstrates you are not dealing with a rational and logical person and so, in this situation, you absolutely must be full metal jacket. In a way the sale of the house in May is your saviour. You have around 8 weeks to get it ready for sale and throw your energy into that.