Originally Posted by
soberista 
Hi there. I have no experience of this but have been through divorce etc. Personally i would not and did not leave the family home. Once youre out its very difficult to get back in or for that matter ensure that you are aware of what is happening with a sale. Documents posted to the address you may never get to see, he could sabotage the viewings etc etc. I would let him go to his parents and let them deal with him.
I think this is, perhaps, an idea worth considering. There were no children involved when my ex-husband divorced me, but having him leave was preferable--even for me.
And yes, please, do consult an attorney ASAP, especially since the plan is to sell that house in May. That isn't very far in the future!