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dwtbd Moderation as a goal is achievable after one sheds their addict image and recognizes that heavy use won’t lead to the happiness they seek. Or at least that is basically the conclusion I’ve drawn from what I know of the model.
Let's assume that is what it's saying. What would the objections be to that conclusion?
I'm not trying to argue either way btw, I'm just trying to understand what this model is saying because the goal of happiness seems a good one to me.
Just like to add that my understanding of the addict self-image is that includes the belief that you will loose control if you start drinking and the book very clearly and prominently says that if you believe this about yourself you should not drink at all.
And it also says that you would only be able to moderate if that is what you
really want to do.
I think a fair summary of the conclusion you've stated is that you are and do what you think.