Originally Posted by
atalose Not making excuses for your mom or her hurtful behaviors towards you but it’s certainly a lot of mental health issues going on.
I have read enough about research done on adults now that were heavily abused in the same way as her & I believe whole heartedly that is HAS created the phenomena of mental illness. (There isn't a lot that I've found - this is the 1st generation of folks really being studied for this.)
https://link.springer.com/article/10...:1009576223866
But again - that's just me being insulting when I mention such a thing. Ugh.
She is completely resistant to the idea of assisted living at her age - and Sis agrees with her somewhat. So - I guess they'll be happy living together soon enough? Sigh.