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Old 03-10-2018, 11:08 AM
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nitabug0107
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Originally Posted by trailmix View Post
Good for you for doing some things you enjoy.

Here is the thing though. While you are out eating steak or out with friends or sitting by the pool reading, you're worrying.

Why are you worrying? Because your boyfriend who is an alcoholic has disappeared. He's depressed, probably has anxiety and you don't know where he is.

Why is that by the way? He will turn up at some point. When he does, please remember that while you are sitting by the pool worrying, he has access to that modern technology called a phone. You will be relieved but keep in mind when he does call, what it's been doing to you.

Just want to add that i'm not trying to put him in a bad light, don't mean to imply it comes from a place of malice. I don't know him and i'm not judging him. It is why people tend to recommend detaching at least a bit though.
The worry about where he is has come to an end. I recieved a phone call from the police an hour ago. I gave them his parent's information.

I'm not next of kin, so they wouldn't tell me anymore.
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