Old 03-06-2018, 04:42 AM
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Nowsthetime
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Originally Posted by sweetichick View Post
Admittedly my ex was out with his second wife again and the day before listed my changes to make before we could be friends again. Mainly a perfect clean house and no drinking or smoking cigarettes.
I can’t believe that after everything you would consider being friends with your “neighbor” or “friend” or whatever you decide to call him that day. He is toxic for you, that has been established and yet YOU chose to allow this person to be around and now you are listening to what he tells you you must do in order for the two of you to be friends? You are worth more than that.

I mean this with love, you are allowing this person to toy with your emotions and you are allowing this situation.

I think volunteering is a great idea to give us some perspective so I think that’s a good step. You are making positive changes but I think that the most important change that you must make is to kick this person out of your life for good. You have heard that here so many times but it is up to you.

I’m glad that you are working a plan and that you’re keeping us posted.
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