Originally Posted by trailmix

Hi Carter,

I can't imagine what that would look like. I've seen it mentioned as well but I can't remember any details if anyone ever provided any.

Thing is, adults shouldn't need contracts. He is either going to do what he says and mean what he says or he's not and no piece of paper will make a difference to that.

I think it's great that you do have a relapse plan in place. It's probably a good idea to think about what you, personally, might want to do in that instance. Hopefully he stays sober but what if he relapses?

You kind of need a plan. If that might mean you want to get out of there for a while have you put funds aside for that purpose? Do you have a place to go? Longer term if needed (that might just mean looking at rentals available in your area).

Although since you have discussed relapse you might have some of those practical actions in place, if they should be needed.