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Old 03-02-2018, 04:59 AM
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Carter5
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Trailmix- thanks for your response!
I am fortunate that my parents live about 30 minutes away and have offered me a place to stay as well as friends in my area who know what’s going on. I haven’t been setting aside money yet, but that’s a good idea. I wonder how people do that when sharing finances with their alcoholic spouse?
If things got out of control again (lying, sketchy behavior, etc) then I think I would have to be done with the relationship. I understand relapse can be part of someone’s journey, but mentally I can’t handle being lied to and gaslighted anymore. I got to a low point when I told him to leave in December and it’s been great for him and our relationship (aka I like him again lol), I just don’t know that that will happen again.
One relapse though and he tells me? Not quite sure what that would mean...
Anyway thank you for your response! Many things to think about!
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