My sponsor has none of these problems.
maybe your sponsor has done more than go to meetings?
maybe your sponsor has worked the steps and has had a spiritual awakening that has changed her attitude about alcohol? maybe working the steps helped her recover from the hopeless state of mind and body?
have ya asked her why she doesnt drink and you do?
maybe its untreated alcoholism?
why in the worldare you even communicating with ANOTHER ex? why are you inviting insanity in?
if you have decided you want what we have and are willing to go to ANY lenghts to get it,then you are ready to take certain steps.
are you willing to go to ANY lengths?