this was your statement as of 02/23/18:
This morning she admitted she was wrong and has made a promise to herself not to drink. I have heard "one day at a time" way too often. This is now my boundary. Crossing it will mean the end of the marriage. She knows it. The ball is in her court. I trust she is taking it very seriously and want the marriage to continue. I will stay vigilant and determined to mind my own boundaries. Thanks for everyone's input and help.
you now have proof that she has NOT stopped drinking, that she IS hiding booze in the house, even with your ultimatums - or perhaps in spite of them.
she has been slippin and slidin since rehab....this is not the fault of the treatment center as they do not TELL people to drink, this is not the fault of AA as they to do not instruct people to drink.
nope my friend, this is on HER...........these are her ACTIONS, not her words..........