Originally Posted by
Ladybird579 
Simple. Does he want to stay with you? If so he must choose to stop drinking because of the rages.
This man is abusive and it has nothing to do with his drinking. This is not a case of if HE wants to stay. OP wants him to leave. Most alcoholics are not abusive.
Breeze I would do as Dandy suggested and call the dv hotline. They will know ways to get him out so you don't have to leave.
I agree it has nothing to do with the drink he is just plain abusive, it's just highlighted more when he's been drinking. Some of the things he's done when drunk turns my stomach. I'm in the UK but will google numbers and get onto someone this week.