Hi all,
Thanks again for all of the enlightening and helpful posts. My wife is progressing well at rehab, I'm supposed to go and visit her for the "family weekend" starting a week from tomorrow, and she's scheduled to get out the following week. I'm feeling pretty stable finally and remain hopeful and optimistic about the future.
As has been said though, her recovery is up to her, and she needs to be judged on her actions and not her words. To me that not only means not drinking, but continuing on with AA, and seeking real and consistent mental health treatment which I believe contributed to her drinking.
I plan to continue updating with whatever happens, be it positive or negative. Thanks again for all of the insight, it's helped me tremendously.