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Old 02-18-2018, 08:25 AM
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Tryingin2016
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My XAH is a bully to our son. It was that reason why i finally divorced him. I didnt see the abuse towards me at the time, but I saw how he bullied our son and one of the dogs. I think he may also be a bully towards his mother. He is only like this when drinking. And this mean behavior only manifested in the last 18 months.

I had to threaten him with a restraining order after his last encounter with our son a few weeks ago. We haven’t heard from XAH since. I put my son in therapy but my son refuses to continue to go (he’s 17).

It’s a big mess. I am at a loss how to get my son to continue therapy. How does a parent continue to drink when he knows his behavior when drinking is abusive.
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