That is half the battle, so good for you! As a codependent, controlling person, I always thought I had to know what was going to happen in the future. The concept of the day at a time took me a very long time to embrace.
Originally Posted by
casinva 
It’s hard for me because I once was where he is now. I’m not making excuses nor condoning his behavior. We have a long road ahead of us and I have no idea how it’s going to turn out. Just have to take it one day at a time.