My daughter got out of jail after two weeks but faces another stint over her DUI. There is a custody hearing in two weeks and it looks like the baby daddy will get the the three children which everyone doubts he can handle. Guess I'll be involved in providing for my grandchildren which is fine. Daughter told her mother that we can come and visit as long as we don't bring up rehab which I thought she might finally be ready to try. She dried out in jail but she learned nothing it seems. Wants to stay where she is with the same loser friends but has no job and is crashing with a couple who are struggling with alcohol. After spending 20 of her 35 years in a drug and alcohol coma her mind seems totally trashed. They say there's always hope if she's still breathing but I'm beginning to wonder. Going no contact again and spending all my love and treasure on my grandchildren as we face life without her.