Sissyfuss, Not bailing her out was a very good move. Looking back at all my B's troubles, he got his act together after being in jail and not bailed out. He was there for a couple of months and was on the straight and narrow for nearly a year or so afterwards. Unfortunately, he found his way back to drugs and was able to play the system without being detected. The only deterrent that worked for him was the real threat of incarceration.