Originally Posted by
Jewelstar 
The grief has been indescribable. I finally got him to admit to me (over text!) that he doesn’t want to reconcile anymore, that at less than 60 days sober, he has decided he needs to start the next chapter in his life. My 18 yr marriage is over and I found out via text! And by the way, “he’s been spending a lot of time with a woman he met in AA, they haven’t slept together (yet. Another lie I’m sure) but there’s definately an attraction.”
Hi Jewelstar,
Thank you posting this, it helped. This exact story is why I've forced myself into No Contact with my AB. He is newly sober and acting completely erratic. This happened before and I was blind-sighted, I am never going through that again.
I just decided to protect myself before something like this happened.
I am safer to stay completely away.
It is very hard though because he keeps texting. I had to sleep every day this week until it was time to get my son just to cope.
He can't seem to reassure me about anything and I am just seeing too many signs from before when he got some time sober and went completely off the deep end.
Thank you for reminding me, today has been an especially difficult day.
Hugs
Kayleezen