Another Confirmation...
that I did the right thing by making my AF leave my home.
I was in the back yard and part of the 6' high wooden fence leans and is detached from another section of the fence. There are weeds and overgrown trees back there (no neighbors).
I went over to look at it and happened to catch a glimpse...lovely...beer cans and the cardboard packaging for a case of beer.
So, that confirms I did the right thing at the right time. All the drinking he was doing that I didn't know about. Drinking in the backyard and throwing the remnants over the fence. SMH.