PS: Sorry I have no idea how to edit my original post but just wanted to add that I'm sorry for the gory details in this post. I haven't shared this level of goriness with anyone and I feel like I really need to share it.
I know it's not pretty stuff that I've shared.
I should also add that while this person sounds like an absolute nightmare, she was. But then she was also funny and smart and I loved the heck out of her. And I miss her. Those latter parts I continue to struggle with.
Thanks again,
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