I’ve read your other threads and while he’s ducking the truth, I would be shocked if he hasn’t resumed his previous affair or who knows, started a new one.
It’s pretty typical for addicts of all kinds to look for solutions outside themselves to fix the problem within. He maybe in some kind of “recovery,” but this relationship has all the signs of that.
Getting your life back sounds like a very good plan. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
Sending you a hug.