AnvilheadII, Yes you are right. I was thinking about telling her especially when she expressed to me that he was being distant with her once I left... I been trying to keep his crack addiction quite just like the reality of what was happening in our relationship just because in my experience in the past I have been judged for being with him. I think because being a crack addict is like the worst, but then again all drugs are. that's what has brought us here. I'm just so heartbroken about all of this and truth is that I love him with all my heart, and crack addict or not he's still her dad. Truth is keeping everything in is what's driving me insane. Thanks and I will keep coming here for the support.