I'm copying what I just posted in your other thread.
Hi Wildflower,
I am glad you came here tonight, and I am sorry for what is going on. If your boyfriend/husband tries to get you to drink to do something sexual, that is quite concerning. It makes me think it is something you wouldn't consent to sober, which means you aren't consenting if you are drunk.
Please do not drink, and remove yourself from this relationship and take some time to really look at whether or not it is healthy.
Sending lots of love, stick here tonight if needed.