I haven't had much experience dating emotionally balanced, responsible men due to my own enabler tendencies and sometimes I have trouble discerning what is healthy in love and what's a manipulation. So, I'm trying to learn to recognize the signs of substance dependency more clearly and faster with each relationship.
if you were involved with/dating an emotionally balanced, responsible man you would not be HERE. we should be asking ourselves stuff like.....i wonder if he likes thai food?
we need to honor what we SEE, respect what we KNOW......not try to minimize, marginalize, diminish the facts as they present themselves to us.