Old 12-29-2017, 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted by DontRemember View Post
Glad it went as smooth as it did. I'm similar to your dad about my daughter. When she was almost assaulted and I found out(I was told about it by her grandmother), I lost it! I hope you can find peace with therapy.
When I told my mum at 15 (about a family 'friend' and 'pillar of the community') she just said DONT tell your Dad. Took a long time to get past that. Couple of decades. Managed to forgive her quicker than him, and have only even recently understood why i felt so mad at him. Basically because he just couldnt be relied on to behave responsibly because of his temper and when he was drunk, I didn't get support. We just carried on pretending that everything was fine. That we were a normal family. Jeez. I sound bitter don't I. I suppose I still am a bit, but not cripplingly so any more. Mostly haha.

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