Originally Posted by DontRemember

I wasn't mad at my daughter,but was well..I found out who the guy was because he was 7yrs older than my 14-15yo(at the time) daughter and her best friend/the one who stopped the assault told me. He moved after I had a 'talk' with him. Might be good for your dad to talk to someone about it,so it doesn't keep him from moving forward himself with the new found info. Not the kind of 'talk' I had,but with a therapist. I shouldn't have done what I did,but if I'm being honest I'd do it again even without the drinking. Hang in there and you'll get past this. My daughter is a year or two older than you and she's doing great now! Great job, great group of friends,ect..Therapy really helped her! I wish you and your family peace in the New Year.