Newcomer question
I am battling with going back into a relationship with a spouse who is still in his addiction. He denies he is addicted but when I said I didn't want him to drink anymore and that if he didn't I could come back, he said he would "only drink every now and again and that he is in control and can decide how much to drink"
I am thinking it looks like a bad idea
My two adult children are with him and I miss them and feel like my time to be with them is slipping away. Soon they will move out and that will be the end of this brief moment in time where I can still be with them on a daily basis
I need people to be honest and blunt as my heart is hurting and I keep going back and forth in my head. One moment I believe it will be ok and the next I'm afraid of losing myself all over again