Hevyn,
Thank you, I know deep down inside that all are welcomed here but I have to say that sometimes it feels like a site for sober people.
For example, I would log on every morning for support, and the most popular threads are the ones of long time members who chat about daily life. Some of these long term members have little time for relapsers or people struggling to find their way. AA seems to be the given answer. I'm not judging, and I am grateful for what is available.