I'm trying to figure out how to get out of my company work party. I'm one of the bosses so it's making my wife thinks I need to be there. I know it's going to be too much for me. It's a bunch of bar employees with a ton of booze and ride service to get everyone home safe. After 10 months things have been easier for me but it's still hard and it's hard for me to get her to understand how much my body is screaming at me not to go.