Originally Posted by
mumther911 
3 weeks sober. he has also threatened to throw me out if i refuse a breathalyzer.
Hi Mum,
That definitely screams controlling. I wouldn't be comfortable with my husband making that demand, and certainly not manipulating the situation with ultimatums. Is this a typical pattern in your relationship? I agree with the others who suggested talking to a counselor.
Three weeks sober is great, but still early, and having a counselor would be helpful for recovery, as well as your relationship.
This is a great site to support you with sobriety.