Originally Posted by
mumther911 
I am early in recovery. While active in addiction my husband would want to breathalyze me. he asked me again last night. I was sober...just super tired. I refused. Was I right or wrong to do so? I probably should have. I ts just that it makes me feel like a criminal.
absolutely right. I wouldn't allow it. You are a person getting sober for yourself. if he cannot trust you then he needs to walk away - and that is his right to do so. you're not a second class citizen because you're an alcoholic.