Hi there.
Quite similar here, work pretty much full time, 2 kids, husband... My husband still drinks so I am around alcohol. I'm 11 weeks sober now & doing ok. I don't do AA but have addiction counsellor & did a 10 week therapy course for anxiety.
My only source of those who understand (apart from my counsellor) is here on SR which has done me well so far. Some friends know my situation but clearly they don't understand, but they do try & they do support me.
Try posting here as others have said & take it from there.
Take care x