Originally Posted by
Sarah84 
Is addiction really that strong that you'll give up the person you love to be with someone who will use with you? We've never lived together but been through so much.
Welcome to SR Sarah, and sorry to hear about what brings you here. Regarding your question above, the answer is yes - sometimes addiction is so strong that it will tear apart relationship - among other things.
I'm glad you've come here, we have a great community of those seeking and in recovery, and we also have a section of the site devoted to family and friends of addicts/alcoholics. You are always welcome here in the Newcomers section, but you could also find others who have been in your same situation in the family section.