Originally Posted by
canguy 
Hi Purple,
No, the 'negotiating' thing, (drink tonite, then 2 off, etc) never works for people like us. I realised that thinking like that was confirmation I had a problem.
Yep, tried that too....and failed! "Will I have a drink tonight?" - "no" is a much simpler conversation to have in your head.
Go for it, you can do it!