Originally Posted by
Holly5690 
He was able to look me directly in the eye and make ME feel like the crazy one.
That's called
gaslighting. Gaslighting is a form of manipulation that seeks to sow seeds of doubt in another person's mind. You aren't crazy. But staying with him may surely drive you crazy. Please see our forum for friends and loved ones of alcoholics. Lots of people who have been right where you are now.
https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...ly-alcoholics/