Originally Posted by
sweetichick 
Sorry for being too sensitive. Really reeling from the sexual harassment. Plus my best friend wants to move in. He reckons his wife work is closing soon. Once she loses her job she will go back to Thailand to be with her children. Never been so stressed. He rcan't move in with me.
Hmmm - sounds to me (reading between the lines) like he has been feeding you this B.S..... 'keeps my 2 stalking exes away. I sleep peacefully every night due to him. No thefts or breakins' to play on your fears and insecurities so you'll be easier to manipulate.
Am I right in thinking that he wasn't so keen on you attending AA / getting a sponsor? Or perhaps I'm getting muddled with someone else.
Anyway - "No" is a complete sentence. None of us owe anyone an explanation for not wanting to share our home and private space with them. "Thanks for thinking of me, but the answer is no." Should suffice. And if it doesn't and he cops a strop over it, well, at least it'll answer your questions about his motives.
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