Hi Soulshine,
I have a daily gratitude list (here on SR's gratitude forum) and I worked on a Sobriety Affirmation which is pasted onto one of my home screens on my phone so I can read it whenever I need to. I've included it below so you can see if it is a tool that might be helpful to you:
Everyday I am embracing and appreciating the joy and happiness that sobriety brings. I am experiencing fun and enjoyment as a result of my sobriety. I am engaging in actions and behaviours which are aligned with my core values and beliefs. I use kind and caring activities to relax and unwind. I express gratitude daily. I love my husband and respect my marriage. I show myself love, forgiveness and kindness.