update
Well everyone, i got through a couple of convos with him about going to recovery related treatment OR couples therapy, and he seemed to actually be coming around. But today, after he had made intake appointments, he left the room for about an hour, and came back and hunkered down for a full-on verbal attack, criticising me for all sorts of stuff, said I was crazy, unstable, I'd only ever let him down, and ON and ON til he could see I was not buying it. I didn't even argue. Then he basically said one of us has to move out immediately, as I am holding him back from having a normal life, etc... It was brutal. Then he went to bed, where I'm sure hes just fuming. I'm pretty shaken right now, and I appreciate all of your support! I'm going to go see my best friend now, so don't worry if I don't reply right away tonight. Much love..