I am angry but not showing it, as to not send him spiraling toward relapse.
relapse ends with a drink. someone thats "... in the throws of dry drunk syndrome and feeling sorry for himself"
is already on the way and lookin for an excuse.
there is absolutely NO ONE that can cause a drink to get down anyones throat other than the person in their own mirror
thats all just my opinion.
as always,dandy has awesome advise