I know you're right. I'm going to try.
Thank you both for your vey kind words. I've definitely put my foot down, and so far he seems to be leaning more seriously towards leaving than to get help. He's waffled a bit, but I'm not sure what to expect. I feel like I might need to give a "deadline?" Not sure if that's recommended in this scenario. So far he's just tuning out/avoiding me, and I'll admit- I'm devastated. It's going to be a hard road the next few months, no matter what he decides, and I'm exhausted just thinking about it. Thanks again, your support has made a big difference!!