Welcome!
We do understand how hard this is. I'm glad you posted and that you know you need to stop drinking. There is no need to tell your family or anyone about your plan if you don't want to. However, it's always best to talk to your doctor before detoxing from alcohol because it's unpredictable and can be dangerous.
Following is a link with information about various recovery programs and tips that we've used.
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...at-we-did.html