Hello!
Be careful with that comment; "the dad he can be".
Watch what he IS and has been. Do not believe words, only actions.
I'm so sorry that you are going through this but you will come out ok and perhaps better off than staying with this man that waits 3 days and then wants to see your daughter. This person who ha spit you through all this: he is done with you? How about you are done with him. Put your daughter and yourself first. Life doesn't have to be like this...