UP, have you found any Tai Chi classes near you?
Izzy, things will be become clearer for you in time. I agree that changing our thinking patterns is key to a happier life. It takes time but it really is a game changer. Keep going, you're doing a great job!
I'm still trying to clear up some work issues, and trying to find someone to pass stuff on to when I leave. Funny, but no one wants the hassle......how surprising
Have a great day all.