Originally Posted by
DontRemember 
I'll just say this; I had to re-evaluate ALL of my relationships once sober. Business,personal,family,ect.. I HAD too,to remain sober. Look..I'm sure you've hurt him with your drinking in one way or twenty..That sucks,but it happened. Us addicts want instant fixes. That's why we drink/use. With people and relationships it's not so cut/dry. You really have to work at it and take their feelings into account(this was hard for me because I'm a selfish drunk).
Thanks for your reply. I have hurt him and he's had to pick me up from a face plant more times than I can remember. I too am selfish, and it brings tears to my eyes to admit it. I will work at it. I just need time, i guess...